Adria Emerged from Darkness, Embraced by the Transformative Light of Christ
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Adria Emerged from Darkness, Embraced by the Transformative Light of Christ

ByLauren Rose

As told by Adria, written by Lauren Rose  I once believed our relationship was beautiful. Looking back to before our marriage, the only red flag I can identify was his tendency to push sexual boundaries. Unfortunately, that continued into our marriage and ultimately led to sexual abuse towards me.  Once we were married, I experienced…

Lindsey’s Church Became Her Place of Peace and Safety After Abuse
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Lindsey’s Church Became Her Place of Peace and Safety After Abuse

ByLauren Rose

If you’re curious about the difference a church can make when CTPM walks alongside them to help them understand how to care for women in domestic abuse, check out this story. As told by “Lindsey,” written by Lauren Rose My husband and I met through mutual friends who attended his church. At first, I thought…

How Did Growing Up in a Home with Domestic Abuse Impact Me?
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How Did Growing Up in a Home with Domestic Abuse Impact Me?

ByLauren Rose

As told by Ann, written by Lauren Rose  Now, at 78, I’m living in the peace God calls us to. Witnessing abuse in our home impacted my three siblings and me in different ways. Their stories are theirs to tell; this is my story. For me, God has restored what I lost as a child,…

Domestic Abuse Through The Eyes Of A Child
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Domestic Abuse Through The Eyes Of A Child

ByGordon Coleman

Written by Lauren, as told by Laurie By the time I was born, my mom had already been married to, and lived with, my abusive dad for over three years. The abuse she experienced was related to control: he was never satisfied with her, and wanted to recreate her in an image that he found…

Domestic Abuse Devastated “Kasey” And Her Children
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Domestic Abuse Devastated “Kasey” And Her Children

ByGordon Coleman

As told by “Kasey,” written by Lauren Rose When I was first dating my soon-to-be husband, it didn’t take long for several red flags to begin appearing…but I was too young, naïve, and love-starved to recognize them. Immediately after we married, he suddenly wanted nothing to do with me physically. I thought, I’m a good…

“Hermosa Mariposa” Discovers Domestic Violence Isn’t Mutual
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“Hermosa Mariposa” Discovers Domestic Violence Isn’t Mutual

ByGordon Coleman

As told by “Hermosa Mariposa,” written by Lauren Rose  When I first met my soon-to-be husband, he seemed to be very loving and caring, and everything I ever wanted in a husband…but looking back, now I see that what looked like “care” was actually the beginning of control.  He told me I needed to get…

The Emotional and Spiritual Impacts of Domestic Violence Devastated “Mercy”
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The Emotional and Spiritual Impacts of Domestic Violence Devastated “Mercy”

ByGordon Coleman

As told by “Mercy” and written by Lauren Rose When I first met my husband, he made me feel special, unlike anyone else. Most of our time together was spent studying the Bible, or discussing what God was doing in our lives. I was a new believer, and had just broken up with someone who…

5 Ways Investing in CTPM Has Impacted My Life
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5 Ways Investing in CTPM Has Impacted My Life

ByGordon Coleman

   Written anonymously by one of our superstar volunteers. She is heavily involved in both our Church Partnership and Advocacy programs, assisting us in ways that many are unaware of. Our impact has been very influenced by the expertise, gifts, and skills she offers us. We are truly grateful for her.   Four years ago,…

CTPM Gave My Home Peace After Domestic Abuse
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CTPM Gave My Home Peace After Domestic Abuse

ByGordon Coleman

As told by “Natasha,” with assistance in writing by Lauren Rose  Dear Supporter of CTPM, Two years ago, I entered a CTPM support group and was assigned an advocate. These women have been supporting me in all areas of healing. As I have been processing the painful emotions associated with the abuse I endured, my…

10 Things You Need to Know About Domestic Abuse in the Military
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10 Things You Need to Know About Domestic Abuse in the Military

ByGordon Coleman

By River Grace Outlaw It happens…a lot. Domestic violence rates are substantially higher in military couples. Let me preface this story with my awareness that my story is just one experience out of many, and every story is different.  I was a starstruck bride as we loaded the U-Haul with all my earthly possessions so…